In today's world, one of the most fundamental skills that every child should be taught is the skill of managing conflict. While I believe that more programs are arising to educate our youth on conflict resolution, our society still has a very long way to go. So, why conflict resolution skills?
First, the better couples manage conflict, the more likely they are to avoid marriage breakdown. Secondly, there will still be inevitable divorce, but with strong conflict management skills, divorcing couples can tap into that skill set and utilize it to move through all the steps needed to get a divorce. Third, it's not divorce that damages kids, it's how the parents handle conflict that can impact the children negatively or positively. Mediation is a great alternative for many people, and most come in with basic skills around being cooperative. However, what is sorely lacking in most cases is an understanding of the rules of how to play "fair" in mediation, how to manage one's internal self-conflict, and how to keep the big picture in mind that maintaining healthy relationships should be the first goal.
Becky Shook-Wotzka
To the development of earlier conflict management skills in kids
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