In working with clients who are ready to attract a partner, I usually start with 2 tools:
(1) Guided Meditation: Opening a space to help them connect inward to their heart's true desires. This means quieting the mind and starting to listen to the wiser, deeper, more grounded part of who we are. This is a pre-requisite for the steps that follow. Why? Because creating out of our "minds" will produce inconsistent, incomplete, and sometimes even disasterous results. Our minds/brains are great for analyzing data, labeling, comparing, etc. But the mind can't create. It can't effectively lead our lives. Only the Authentic Self can do these things in a way that brings us true fulfillment and joy.
(2) Ideal Scene for a Romantic Partner: Creating a description and vision that is truly aligned with our hearts and souls is a magical, fun, illuminating process. Ideal Scenes are filled with energy, enthusiasm, and grace. They invoke a power greater than ourselves to co-create our vision (or something even better) for the highest good of all concerned. They are positive, uplifting, and powerful. And they work. I have created everything in my life for the past 8 years using Ideal Scenes - my ideal partner, our dream home, health and well-being, our successful businesses, enhanced prosperity, a conscious community of friends and co-workers. I am literally living the life of my dreams. But not the dreams of my ego which don't really ever satisify -- the dreams of my heart and soul which allow me to experience amazing goodness in my life and share that with others to enhance their lives.
How do you create an Ideal Scene? Well, there are a few requirements, some of which I'll share in a future blog. If you can't wait to learn about them, then check out the creators of these tools at The University of Santa Monica. They have a 2 years Masters program in Spiritual Psychology that guides you step-by-step through the process, along with many other tools for creating the life you deserve. Or check out their weekend workshops (Loyalty to Your Soul)!
Dawn Hanley, M.A.
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I finally know that( having a couple of serious relationships that never lasted for long )in romantic relationships, as with so much else, it’s the little things that count. Just as a mis-spoken word or odd look can throw a couple into a weeks-long feud, small and seemingly insignificant gestures can help keep a relationship on track. A little gift, an off-hand compliment, a moment of physical contact can vastly strengthen a relationship.
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Hi Scarlet,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comment. I agree it's the little things that count. When we do an ideal scene, it's important to write the statements in a "complete" tense with an emphasis on a way of "being". That way I know exactly how I need to "be" in order to get to the ideal scene.
Becky Shook-Wotzka